Be duly reminded, also, that it was not without divine purpose that God put the woman into the life of the man, not the other way around, contrary to popular belief, and that is to help that man in his obeyance to God…God put something in you that he didn’t put in him to be used as a lightning rod for that man, because God is very much aware of the rebellious nature of man and He created you to be man’s helpmeet in human form – as his guard, his guide, and his gauge, to bring the man (the men) in your life to a point of conciliation before him. “8For man did not come from woman, but woman from man. 9Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man.” (1 Peter 1:8 & 9)  “11In the Lord, however, woman is not independent of man, nor is man independent of woman. 12For just as woman came from man, so also man is born of woman. But everything comes from God.” (1 Peter 1:11 & 12)  That is why when man follows after woman with blind and self-serving ambition he usually gets into trouble, because the idea is that man should look to God for guidance, and the woman should look to the man…even as he looks to God, and they will both come to a place of sufficiency in each other where they will bound together in body, soul, and spirit in obeyance and service to God, and he will empower them by his mercy and grace to bear seeds of his goodness toward man to multiply and replenish the earth in every way and form, according to the utterance of his word-which shall not return to him void but accomplish that which he has purposed.  “24For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.” (Genesis 2: 24)