Love is the force that binds the hearts of a kindred mindset.  One in mind becomes one in heart, and one in the spirit.  Love is also a deceitful word – that serves two masters.  Love can build up, and it can destroy.  Love can be both a friend and a foe – Therefore, “See that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is.  And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the spirit; speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord; Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.”  (Ephesians 5:15-21)