Love blooms. Just put the seeds in the soil and let them grow. Stop trying to control every situation, and don’t try to sugar coat the truth about who you are and what you do, because lies unceremoniously diminish the value of truth, give birth to adversity, and threaten the solvency of the relationship, giving credence to the other person (or people) to doubt your integrity, sincerity, and the strength of your commitment to them, which in time will inevitably cause more division and create a breech that can become so big that it cannot be easily mended, or so damaged that it cannot be repaired.